“The forbearing use of power does not only form the touchstone, but the manner in which an individual enjoys certain advantages over others is the test of a true gentleman.”

The power which the strong have over the weak, the magistrate over the unlettered, the experienced over the confiding, even the clever over the silly – the forbearing or inoffensive use of all this power or authority, or the

total absence of it when the case admits it, will show the gentleman in plain light. The gentleman does not needlessly or unnecessarily remind an offender of a wrong he may have committed against him. He can not only forgive, he can forget; and he strives for that nobleness of self and mildness of character which impart sufficient strength to let the past be the past.

After advices and tools shu showed me about being a gentleman, i thought about it and decided to start behaving like a gentleman.

here are some websites you can go to to find out how to be a gentleman that ladies love:

http://www.askmen.com/money/successful/41_success.html

http://www.king-mag.com/online/?p=7981

http://www.knowsouthernhistory.net/Culture/Manners/on_being_a_gentleman.htm

I decided to let go and leave the past.

Sorry guys for being rather harsh the past few days. Im still in the process of learning. Guys out there, pls try to become a gentleman cos the singaporean girls are admiring the caucasian guys more because they have the factors of a gentle man.

Lastly MY APOLOgies to ALL

Love this bag to the max=D

Was so happy yesterday. Spend the first half of the day working in isetan till it closed at 530pm. Wilbur and yuankai came and we headed down to cityhall and met ada there. Then headed to DCP to see Manhatten bags. haaha was tempted to buy and tada!! ahhaha ada got 1 and i got 1.

After that headed to pizzahut for dinner and to prayer meeting at riverwalk. Did not stay on as had many things to bring home.

Ps: Sorry for not replying your sms, was away from the phone during pm.

Had a wonderful time lingering once again in God's presence. I will not let anything make me stumble. Im here for God, not for man. And i decided to stop comparing, cos Jesus did not compare, instead He just left and went to another country.

who knws...

signing off

JASON

Times are changing. HUrray no more exams. Now to chiong work. Im Smile,she smile and we smiled:)

HAPPY VALENTINES day and CHINESE NEW YEAR TO EEVERYONE

ps. I wont let any thing ruin my festive mood. I was being nice for a moment, but since it has made u irritated, i decided to change and be a DOU person...

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Life is like eating a hotpot. There are 2 areas. Hot and Spicy on one side and Sweet on the other side. The food represents the amount of effort people have been adding to your life. Too often we miss out on the small things in life. So look carefully and see if there are details u have missed.

last of all, I dislike people who break their promises or take a long time to fulfill what they promised. have they forgotten or have they just decided to ignore?

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I do wonder if what I do has made an impact to somebody.


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Is it hard for people to notice me?


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Am I really appreciated? I believe so. By God, Parents. What else can I say...


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If u are asking why I do not list down leaders or friends, its because I have my own reasons. Im not refering to all friends or all leaders, Im just refering to some...


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If u wanna know what i mean, pls come look for me.